Cooper Trooper Foundation

Join Koko’s Courage Club

• Trooper T-Shirt
• Stress/Squeeze ball
• Courage Medal (for younger siblings)
• “I’m a Trooper” Awareness Bracelet
• Courage From Koko’s Pouch Book-(for younger siblings)
• Koko the stuffed Koala (for younger siblings-used interactively with Courage From Koko’s Pouch book)
• Jamie’s Journey (for older/teen siblings)
• “I’m a Trooper” sticker
• Socks (for older/teen siblings)
• Journal/Pen
• “Beads of Courage” Sibling Activity Kit
• Informational Brochures/Resources for Parents

(Items subject to change based on availability)

“A Cancer diagnosis doesn’t just affect the patient – it significantly affects the entire house.  All lives are turned upside down and will never be the same.  Everyone has to immediately and forever adjust to a “new normal.”

Right after our daughter Caroline was diagnosed with Stage IV Neuroblastoma (when she was age 4), our son Andrew (then age 9), got a backpack from The Cooper Trooper Foundation.  It was full of goodies just for him – comfort items and books explaining what his sister was about to go through, and how he fit into her treatment journey as a super-sibling.

Families are often apart for days, weeks or months at a time.  Our family was apart for almost 200 nights in a 16 month period; Andrew often only being able to see Caroline through FaceTime.

Each child is equally important the day before the diagnosis as well as the day of, and after.  The spotlight is instantly on the child that is diagnosed (rightfully so)…but it’s extremely important that the siblings don’t get lost in the shuffle…life still goes on despite fighting this disease…there’s still school, sports, social activities, etc.
The Cooper Trooper Foundation saw the need to support the siblings, and we’re so thankful!”
— Margaret Lantz
www.carolinestrong.com

“MJ has seen in his short life a lot more than most kids his age. ( or any age for that matter). The kids tv show, Doc McStuffins, sings in their little theme song about going to the doctor…”it will only tickle a little.”  Well unfortunately I wish that is all we had to deal with “a little tickle.”
But, MJ was with me the night I found Faith’s tumor while rubbing her belly. He sat in the ER with us, and saw his Dad and I cry like we never had before. He saw her after they removed her tumor, and was kinda freaked out by her huge incision. He listened to Faith cry in pain. He laid with her in her hospital bed for hours after her lung biopsy.  He reminded her not to move because “you got a big tube in your tummy Faith.” He has had to walk through this journey every step of the way. I always feel so bad for him. I can barely comprehend everything that is going on, much less through the mind of a child.

MJ has had a lot of questions obviously.  He has asked me “why did Faith get a bad knot in her tummy?”, “do I have a bad knot?” ” I thought Faith was better?” “Is Faith going to die?” “Am I going to die?” “Are you and Dad going to die?” His questions have sometimes ripped my heart out.  I try to answer them in a way that is honest and that hopefully he can understand.

But MJ has been the truest blessing through it all.  He keeps us laughing. He keeps Faith moving. (mainly away from sharp objects he’s throwing) 🙂 and he always says the sweetest things.  He told Faith the other day “Faith you don’t have any hair?!  It’s ok. Guess you are trying to grow it? Right Mom?”

His innocent mind constantly searching through this journey.  One day when I was really struggling he said to me “Mom, don’t cry. Crying doesn’t help anything.”  He is so right, and I am so thankful I have him to keep me smiling, to keep his Dad smiling, and to most importantly keep Faith happy.

He might only be a five year old boy, but it is HIM who many days keeps us going.

THANK YOU to the Cooper Trooper Foundation who help the siblings of children battling cancer.

Their whole world is turned upside down and it’s nice to have someone reaching out to them during this very difficult time. “

“Receiving the Cooper Trooper Kit for Ayven’s siblings was wonderful! Not only did the kits brighten their spirits, but it also helped them feel recognized during a time when a lot of attention and concern was being put on their sister. We really enjoyed the book that came in the kit!  It unexpectedly helped open the doors of communication with our three year old about what was going on with her baby sister.We are truly grateful that our girls were Cooper Trooper Kit recipients.” -Kim, Schenectady, NY

“My 6 year old grandson was diagnosed with ALL B Cell Leukemia and was treated at Vanderbilt. His little sister is 3 years old and has been through a lot. We are so glad that you thought of these little troopers too. Cancer affects the whole family. Thank you so much.” – Peggy

“Taylor the Tornado” (battling Neuroblastoma)-His 7 siblings received a kit….”They were all so excited to see a package in the mail for them! I really can’t thank you enough! The little ones are going to wear their shirts to school tomorrow and take their books, so the teachers can read them to the classroom. I absolutely love the book “my name is jack” that comes in the kits…It has really helped my five and eight year olds! They really felt special.” – Scott and Gina, Bronson, MI

“Thank you so very much. The kids were all so excited. This truly means the world to Camron’s sisters and baby brother. Angelina (7) said,  “aw mom this is so awesome! I feel so special that they think I am such a good big sister!” Nevaeh (5) said, “even though Camron has cancer, we are pretty cool too!” Camron was so excited for them! He is used to getting things sent for him and the excitement he had for his siblings was amazing! We really can’t thank you enough!”   -Angelina, Nevaeh, and Isaiah, Virginia

“Often times the sisters and  brothers of child cancer patient can feel a little left out. Thank you to the Cooper Trooper Foundation for remembering the siblings. The Cooper  Foundation gave Olivia a sibling Courage Kit when her sister was diagnosed in November 2014. So thankful we received a package, so thankful we met this sweet family, so thankful they remember
If you heart is so inclined, please support our new friends in their endeavor to support the siblings of childhood cancer warriors! I can assure you the siblings are warriors too!” 

“Annabelle was diagnosed with rhabdomyosarcoma when she was 5 months old in 2013. She underwent 14 months of treatment that included chemotherapy, surgeries, and radiation before she was pronounced cancer free in October 2014. During her treatment and in the years of follow up procedures, we have been encouraged to know that our family is not alone and are grateful for the support her sister, Mara, received through the The Cooper Trooper Foundation. Mara was given a Courage Kit while her sister was receiving treatment at Vanderbilt Children’s Hospital. Mara has only recently out grown her Cooper Trooper t-shirt and both girls still have their ducks! In fact, Annabelle’s chemo duck, with its pretend port, was very helpful in teaching her about the cancer she had as a baby and why she has scares on her chest where her ports once were. Our family will be forever grateful for the Cooper Trooper Foundation and all they do for families like us. We are among the lucky ones who have a childhood cancer survivor (5 years cancer free as of June 2019!), and we will be forever supporters of the Cooper Trooper Foundation Pumpkin Patch. “

Do you know of a courageous sibling of a child fighting cancer?

Our hope is to make sure these brothers and sisters feel celebrated, valued, and supported, during this challenging time.

NOTE: Our Courage Kits are designed specifically for SIBLINGS of a child with cancer vs. other chronic illnesses. 

*At this time, Cooper Trooper Foundation can only mail kits within the United States.

Please be sure the shipping address is correct. It should be sent to the sibling’s residence, not the hospital. The hospital will return packages, so please be sure you have the family’s home address.

Request A Kit Form

Do you work with families of children diagnosed with cancer?

Cooper Trooper Foundation would love for you to join other hospitals/facilities (in 46 states) across the U.S., who are already utilizing this incredible FREE resource designed for siblings of children with cancer.

How it works for Hospitals/Facilities:

Request a COURAGE KIT (for displaying as an example) and RACK CARDS/BROCHURES to have on hand at your hospital or facility, using the form below. Information on how to order Courage Kits, (including a QR code) are on these materials. 

OPTION 1: (Preferred)

Hospital/Facility Representative Completes Order Request for Courage Kit:

Request is made via our online form, on behalf of the family/sibling using information obtained on our brochure. Even better, our brochure has a “tear off” panel that lists the required information needed to order a Courage Kit. It only takes a couple of minutes to complete the online form.

Simply do the following:

1. Get needed info to complete online request form for sibling (Name, age, shirt size, home address, etc.) *Use the perforated tear off portion of the brochure to request the needed info from the family.

2. Complete the quick online request form for sibling Courage Kits in the section just above titled Request A Kit.

3. Within a few days, both you and the parent will receive a confirmation email.

4. The sibling will receive a package in the mail at their home address JUST for them! (at no charge)

5. Not only did you just provide an amazing resource for the sibling, but parents tell us all the time how grateful they are when a child-life specialist or social worker, etc. took the initiative to handle this step for them.

OPTION 2:

Give the family a brochure or rack card. Let them know about this resource for their well children, so they can request a sibling Courage Kit.

NOTE: *Most of our hospitals are now completing the online request form for families they serve. Parents have commented so many times about how special it made their child (who likely hasn’t received a lot of attention during the diagnosis) feel to receive a package just for them in the mail.

Reorder or Request Courage Kits

We want to hear from you! If you have received one of our sibling “Courage Kits” for your child or if a sibling would like to share their own thoughts, please take a minute to give us feedback and send in a photo of your child with their sibling(s) and Courage Kits. We strive to make siblings feel valued and supported by remembering them in the midst of this challenging time and it’s important for those who support CTF to see 1st hand the impact we are having on the families we serve. It’s difficult to do that without getting this feedback from YOU. Thank you for taking the time to do this, as we want to continue to help others walking down a similar road.